Do You Work Out or Diet?

You hear a lot of people out there who oppose any talk of choosing the gender of your baby. They say that it is immoral to try to conceive the boy or girl of your choice. They argue that gender selection is an attempt at playing God. They say that one must leave the whole issue to a natural outcome.

If they were referring to such methods for gender selection as gene manipulation or choosing one or two embryos out of many grown in a lab dish and discarding the rest, I could at least understand them, even when I do not agree with them.

But when they oppose simple natural methods of gender selection, I can neither understand them nor agree with them.

So I ask:

Do you go to the gym, jog, or otherwise workout in order to improve fitness, to tone up your body, to feel fit and look attractive?

Do you avoid items in your food that can make you obese?

Do you consciously manage your diet to stay slim?

Do you manage your day to day life – your way of eating and living – to avoid lifestyle diseases?

Do you work your brain – solve crosswords, sudoku, write, to help your brain cells active and put off senility?

Do you use any method of birth control, including the “safe period”?

If you said “yes” to any of the above, then tell me, how is it different when you use a 100 percent natural method for choosing the gender of your baby, methods that only make use of modern scientific knowledge of the human reproductive system, a woman’s own observation and intuition about her body cycles, and the information we give you about your biorhythms?
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A lot of Money may be able to Buy you the Sex you want

In the recent past we have seen several media reports about people going in for high tech medical procedures to select the gender of the baby they are going to have.

These procedures typically involve the following steps:

Tests and evaluations to determine the health of the couples' reproductive organs – comprehensive and expensive tests are involved.

Some method of improving the concentration of “boy” sperm or “girl” sperm as desired, in a given sample of semen taken for use in fertilisation. The most common method is centrifuging.

In vitro fertilisation – fertilisation of the egg in a lab dish to create the embryos.

Some kind of scanning of the embryos to determine their sex – low tech ways like selection by size, high tech methods using pre-implantation genetic diagnosis.

Implantation of the selected embryo into the womb.

Choosing the sex of your baby using high tech procedures involve huge expenses of not less than 50000 US dollars. And even in the case of couples who can conceive normally through intercourse, the procedure involves artificial insemination. The success rate of pregnancy by artificial insemination is low even today.

Now, if the couple has a history of hereditary diseases in their families and they are apprehensive of the baby inheriting the disease-carrying gene, pre-implantation scanning of embryos to eliminate those that will lead to a seriously ill child may be a desirable option, even at such high cost.

But to go to this expense and inconvenience to merely choose the gender of your next baby is neither acceptable nor necessary.

If you do not have a compelling medical reason to spend 50000 dollars to select the sex of your baby, you can use other low tech methods that will improve the chances of having the boy or girl of your desire, with over 90 percent success. Some of these methods are 100 percent safe and natural, and do not involve the use of hormones or drugs.


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Money and Sex

A recent survey confirmed what many parents have know all along: most parents have a preferred gender when it comes to having their next baby, and if the preferred gender doesn’t come along they are willing to have one more baby in the hope that this one will be the baby boy or girl they desire. Thus most parents end up having at least one child more than they had originally planned for.

The result of another survey, this time in the US, showed that raising up a child and seeing her/him through school and college would cost the parents nothing less than 80,000 US dollars.

Now, looking at both these findings together, it means that most parents undertake to spend at least 80,000 dollars extra on raising a child they had not planned to have, only because they were not able to choose the sex of their baby.

Is there a way out?

The most obvious one would be to try to have the boy or girl child of your choice the first time itself, so that you can limit your family size to what you had planned for earlier.

We now have the knowledge to do this without spending too much money.

Of course, if you want a 100 percent guarantee that you will be able to select the gender of your baby you will have to go in for hi-tech medical procedures involving IVF (even if you are capable of normal pregnancy) and PSD. These procedures will set yu back by nothing less than 50,000 dollars.

But if you are willing to settle for improving the odds by over 90 percent in favour of a baby of your preferred gender, you have low tech choices that do not require you to go to hospitals or take money out of your purse.

These methods are 100 percent safe and natural, and the information is easily obtained.



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Choosing the Sex of your Baby - The Moral Question

Some people oppose gender selection calling it an attempt at playing God. They believe that nature must be allowed to decide whether you deliver a boy or a girl.

But when you think about it, the issue is not so clear.

If you are seriously ill, if you have a major illness requiring surgery or even an organ transplant do you just allow nature to take it's course and resign yourself to slow and painful death, or do you go in for treatment?

Do you support contraception, preventing pregnancy using “unnatural” barriers or pills?

Do you think abortion is an acceptable option in any circumstance?

How is an attempt to influence the gender of the baby you are going to conceive different from any of these?

Now consider the most important reason I have mentioned for gender selection – preventing the birth of a child who is likely to be born with a serious genetic disease.

Quality of life for both parents and child becomes an issue. For instance, will the child be so handicapped that he is not only in perpetual discomfort but is also fully dependent on someone for all his needs?

What will happen to this child if the parents are no longer able to care for him?

Can the parents' marriage weather the stress of raising a boy who will need constant nursing and who will never live a normal life?

If the parents were to separate, who would take on the financial and emotional burden of accepting and supporting disabled child?

Let me be honest here. I have personally never been able to accept the idea of abortion. But if you ask me about abortion as a choice in the case of pregnancy resulting from rape, I am not so sure of my stand.

Similarly, if you ask me about gender selection by using natural methods that will improve the odds in favour of conceiving a boy or girl, I am all for it.

But if you ask me about using only those embryos of the preferred gender and getting rid of the others when using the IVF procedure for gender selection, I am not so sure it is right, because I see it as an abortion.

But then again, if this pre-implantation genetic diagnosis is used to prevent the birth of a seriously ill child? Again, I am not so sure it is wrong.

I guess these are moral issues that each one of us must decide on one's own.

If you feel strongly about the moral issues involved, or have a comment about my opinions here, please post your views here.

To see why you may want to improve the odds in favour of a preferred gender for your next child, see this

To see hoe you can choose the sex of your baby, go to the website
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One more reason to choose, very important

There is one very impotant reason to be concerned about the gender of your child when you are planning to have a baby.

I didn't have this information that I now have, about being able to get a boy or girl of my choice with over 90 percent success, when my wife and I decided it was time to have a baby. So we really din't think about it.

But if it were today, gender considerations would have come to my mind, but not for any of the reasons I had written earlier, but for medical reasons.

You see, I learned about diseases passed on through genes the painful way.

I had been selected for a prestigious position in a large organisation on the strength of my performance in a highly competetive, national wide recruitment test.
i had been given my appointment leter "subject to clearing the medical examination successfully".

Confident that I didn't have any illness that could keep me out of the job, I reached the medical examiner's office. More than half-way through the examination I was found to be colour blind, and since the recruitment rules specified "no colourblindness", I could not join the workplace I very much desired.

I had never in my life encountered any problems regarding colours, and never realised that I am colour-blind. i see three different colours at the traffic signals, but probably the colours i see are not the same as the ones you do. My red and green are probably not the same as your red and green.

I learned that colour-blindness is a handicap handed over through the generations through genes. If my grandfather carried the genes for colour blindness, my mother would receive the genes but would herself not be colour-blind, she would transmit these genes to her male children, who would then be colour-blind.So, if I were to have a daughter, the illness would pass on to my grandson through her.

Although colour-blindness is not a life threatening handicap or even one that takes off anything substantial from the quality of one's life, there are other, more incapacitating, sometimes fatal, illness like haemophilia and muscular dystrophy.There are about 350 known chromosome related illness that only male children inherit.

If there is a history of any of these illnesses in the family of either of the parents, then gender selection on the basis of medical information is not only justified and desirable, but also recommeded.

Quality of life can become an issue for both parents and child. For instance, will the child be so handicapped that he is in continual discomfort? What will happen to this child if the parents are no longer able to care for him? Will the parents' marriage weather the stress of raising a boy who will never live a normal life?

Some may accuse these couples of playing God. But then, the same accusations should be made for using contraceptives, for abortion, indeed, for any deliberate choices made in life.

We must make the choices that will make life more pleasant and stressful for ourselves and for others. Otherewise we must accept ourselves are willing pawns of fate, with no will or choice in our experiences in this world.

Chinese Calender for Gender Prediction

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Sorry, they have nothing for you if you are under 18 or over 45 and are pregnant or plan to be .

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